The Crucibles of Trust – Book Review
- Dr. Moria Levy
- 18 hours ago
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In The Crucibles of Trust by Alex Bennet, trust is defined as confidence that people or systems will act as expected, based on reliability, competence, honesty, and intention. The book shows how beliefs, experience, transparency, learning, and consistent behavior help prevent crises and rebuild durable relationships.
The book The Crucibles of Trust is part of an impressive series by Alex Bennet, published in 2025, in which she shares ideas on how, despite everything around us, we can transform ourselves and the world into a better place.
As much as I know, this book is unique among books on trust; it focuses on “the challenging”. It starts from the premise that proactive work is required initially to build trust; however, there will almost always be difficulties and challenges that affect trust (crucibles) and undermine it. The good news is that deteriorating trust systems can be restored (offering pivots); when done correctly, the result is a deepening of trust and a better state than existed before the crisis.
The ideas presented can be approached in a matrix-like fashion:
Trust as a Way of Life
What is trust
Key factors influencing trust
Trust Systems—Situations where trust can be undermined and tools for addressing them
The individual
Interpersonal trust
Organizational and institutional trust
Trust in the universal global system
Note: The book covers all the above levels, organized and categorized somewhat differently.
The book offers tools for improving trust by understanding the key factors that affect it and applying them across different trust systems. These tools are essential for each of us as individuals, as trust is central to managing relationships. For knowledge managers among us, the book is especially significant, since trust is the most critical factor in sharing [M.L.]. Highly recommended!
Trust as a Way of Life
What is Trust
The definition of trust, like any definition of an abstract concept, is not self-evident. We begin with the notion that trust is both a path we walk (a way we behave) and simultaneously a result (the destination toward which we are heading).
Trust is the confidence that someone or something will act as expected, based on a belief in their truth, reliability, capability, or intention.
This definition is relevant to all different trust systems and includes reference to:
Emotional dimension (sense of security, belief)
Cognitive dimension (assessment of capability, reliability, intention)
Behavioral context (expectation of consistent/correct action)
Characteristics of Trust
Attributes that constitute part of our ability to give and receive trust:
Reliability: Our perception of something as genuine and dependable
Competence: The belief that we can perform tasks that matter
Honesty: Truthfulness and transparency in interface with others
Benevolence: Having good intentions toward others
Vulnerability: Our willingness to expose ourselves and take risks in relationships with others
Different scientific and intellectual disciplines deal with trust, each with its own emphases: psychology (emotions); sociology (relationships); economics (foundation for commerce); political science (governance of political systems); philosophy (ethics); anthropology (cultural beliefs and norms); neuroscience (connection between cognitive and neural processes); communication (foundation for effective communication); and organizational psychology (impact on leadership, teamwork, and more). Each of these sciences contributes a vital perspective to understanding trust.
Key Factors Influencing Trust
A foundation of trust rests on five complementary factors:
Our beliefs (belief & faith)—cognitive and emotional-spiritual perceptions and attitudes. Tool for deepening trust in this dimension: clarifying and validating beliefs on one hand, and elucidating their meaning on the other.
Experience—the past influences our present relationships. Tool for deepening trust in this dimension: active experimentation to strengthen and deepen trust.
Environment—the context by which we interpret trust signals. Tool for deepening trust in this dimension: transparency and reduction of ambiguity.
Infinite learning—our ability to learn both from the past and from external information (see book on this topic: >>). Tool for deepening trust in this dimension: proactive learning to prevent and minimize trust crises during various life events (see Part B of the summary).
Chosen behaviors—conscious and unconscious behaviors that reflect our ethics and values. Tool for deepening trust in this dimension: translating values and ethics into consistent behaviors that guide our operations.
The foundations of trust shape the building and strengthening of trust, as well as its undermining and restoration. They are not static; they are influenced by time and context. They constitute a significant guide to understanding trust systems and, more importantly, serve as tools for addressing difficulties, challenges, and even crises across all life situations and trust systems, as will be described below.
Trust Systems
This series of chapters examines different systems and key factors that affect trust, particularly trust crises. These are points where we can focus greater attention on how we cope and on advancing (or restoring) trust at these sensitive junctures.
The Individual
Building and maintaining trust is a skill a person must develop in relation to their environment; it is a journey undertaken with others and with themselves.
Infancy From infancy, a person begins to develop through building trust systems, starting with attachment to a caregiving adult.
Maturation
As an infant develops into a child and adult, they learn to understand the existence of social rules and learn to imitate their environment, and from this understand how to give and receive trust through positive trust interactions. Each interaction provides an opportunity for the individual to build trust-building skills.
Periods of emotional stress affect a person's vulnerability and have the potential to undermine or deepen trust in others and in themselves (identity and belonging).
Aging brings with it several risks that are potential trust crises for the individual in relation to themselves and those around them: a) Financial losses, b) Health losses, c) Social losses, d) Loss of a spouse/partner, e) Loss of independence and increased dependence on others
Tools that can help in coping with aging:
Planning to create anchors for maximum physical independence, financial independence, and measured assistance in decision-making
Maintaining relationships; building new social connections
Self-strengthening of emotional and spiritual resilience
Clarification and self-inquiry into purpose and meaning
Attention to moments and appreciation of what "is."
Interpersonal Trust
At the interpersonal level, challenges can be distinguished by depth, ranging from daily issues (such as minor misunderstandings) to measured crises (such as broken promises) to deep crises (such as betrayal).
Trust crises and opportunities can be categorized into eight types based on their nature (a particular situation may involve more than one category). The choice of these categories provides depth to understanding relationships and the nature of the trust underlying them:
Communication & honesty—events requiring open dialogue or sharing of secrets
Reliability & consistency—points in time when individuals need to rely on others and on their behavioral consistency
Support & empathy—scenarios requiring emotional or practical support from others
Conflicts & resolution—processes of trust crisis, reconciliation, and resolution
Vulnerability & risk—situations where the individual is in a vulnerable position or takes risks, and the other comes to their aid.
Change & adaptation—life changes such as transitions, career changes, or development of new perspectives, requiring adaptation and trust to grow within them
Boundaries & respect—moments when people set boundaries, and others respect (or don't respect) them
Shared values & goals—opportunities where people discuss or align understanding regarding values, or work together to achieve goals
In each of these life events, characterized by these categories, the key factors affecting trust (beliefs, experience, environment, learning, and behaviors) influence the depth of potential crisis and the coping methods used to restore trust.
Events in relationships that are sensitive in the trust aspect:
Change in roles in relationships or in life generally
Change in partners' expectations
Emotional intimacy
Managing dependency and independence relationships
Sensitive events at the individual level that can affect trust in relationships:
Prolonged or significant illness
Job loss
Financial crisis
Organizational and Institutional Trust
When discussing organizations and institutions, there are several levels, each with distinct nuances and characteristics. Nevertheless, they all share common characteristics and tools.
The main systems:
Workplace
Community (local and regional authority)
State (shared democracy)
Here, too, we can discuss eight categories to understand the components of organizational/institutional trust. Here, too, there are combinations, and here, too, using the five key factors can constitute a central axis for coping.
The categories:
Transparency & accountability—events where an organization or institution is required to be open regarding information and take responsibility for its actions and the situation
Ethical leadership & integrity—moments when leaders encounter dilemmas requiring choices regarding ethics, morality, or integrity
Performance & competence—scenarios where people are required to demonstrate their performance, whether through testing or any other way
Stakeholder engagement & responsiveness—listening to stakeholders, receiving feedback, and changing policies or ways of operating to connect with their requests
Crisis management & recovery—times when organizations or institutions are required to manage various types of emergencies
Equity & inclusiveness—circumstances where organizations or institutions are required to ensure fairness, diversity, and inclusion, especially in representation or service
Innovation & adaptability—situations where organizations and institutions need to adapt to challenges or adopt innovative concepts and tools
Public trust & reputation—long-term challenges where the organization or institution is required to maintain or restore damage to its reputation
These challenges all require transparency and integrity, effective communication, dialogue, and listening to individuals, as well as the implementation and development of mechanisms, regulations, and trust-building traditions.
Bennet shares major milestones in Un
ited States history that demonstrate crises and subsequent trust-building, from the Civil War and the Civil War-era legislation, through the Great Depression and the New Deal, to the 9/11 crisis and its aftermath recovery (the list in the book is even longer).
Responsibility for conduct lies with the organization, the institution, and even the democracy, but this does not absolve individuals of the responsibility to organize local communities to build trust (all the more so today, in an age of extremism).
Trust in the Universal Global System
One might think this is where trust systems end, since trust is connected to people. But Bennet surprises us again (as with the individual and the "self") and adds another chapter related to our need for trust in nature and the natural order by which the world operates:
Understanding that we are part of something greater than ourselves
Understanding that we cannot influence everything and must accept uncertainty and develop resilience
Understanding that our beliefs don't always align perfectly with what we see in reality
That there is a connection between fields and disciplines, and there is meaning to holism
That there is a connection between spirituality and science, even if it doesn't always appear so
That we must recognize and respect the ecological systems by which the world operates
And that we have purpose and meaning, that we must clarify and take part in advancing the world
We must not despair of the difficulties and potential crises. The world and its various relationship systems offer us opportunities for growth. Trust is the bridge that connects us from the past to the present, despite its difficulties, and to a future of dreams, aspirations, and fulfillment. It may be difficult along the way; there may be bumps; the future is rosy.
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